She wants to experience and enjoy sexual tension based on how the guy is behaving and managing the dynamic in the interaction between them.
It’s exciting for her and it makes her want to kiss and have sex to release all the built up sexual tension.
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She then tried to call him and get him to come back and have sex with her, but he just went and pulled another girl for a one night stand instead.
He, like me, doesn’t put up with that sort of crap from women.
Since a first date is where a woman and a man first attempt to learn each other’s lingo, it’s also where many relationships go off-kilter, where the first misunderstandings and misperceptions are formed. If it were two women sharing an evening out, complaining about the food or service is perfectly fine, because talking about problems is a bonding experience on Venus.
On the other hand, if she doesn’t mention her children until later in the conversation and acts as though she is single, then she’s probably just looking to have a one night stand or a casual relationship with you.
Yet, the way it works for a woman is that she wants the sexual tension to build up first (this can be done during a 10-20 minute interaction or over a few days if you work or study with a woman) and she will then be open to having sex.
John Gray is the author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.
Originally published in 1992, Gray’s book became the best-selling relationship advice book of all time.
When I got to her office she locked the door and practically raped me!