This is probably the most difficult of all but it’s important. This will distract you from tempting physical issues.
And if you can refrain from being intimate even after you’re engaged, until you get married, you will be much better off. Concentrate on how magical intimacy will be if you save it up for your wedding day! Group dates can also be a lot of fun and beneficial for your Christian friends as well.
Don’t be intimate unless you are engaged to be married.Just because a woman calls herself a Christian doesn’t mean her beliefs or lifestyle choices are the same as mine.”Define your standards in advance. Some Christian singles are reluctant to voice their convictions for fear of being labeled “old-fashioned” or “narrow-minded.” But it’s best to be up-front about what is and is not acceptable to you.The time to think through any potentially perilous situation is before it happens. If holding to your values is important to you, take time to identify them before you start dating. Many awkward and compromising situations can be avoided by simply being honest with your date about your standards.I’ve been set up with guys—even ones who know I’m a Christian—who expect me to go along with their lifestyle choices: sex, drugs, excessive drinking, and the rest.Other times, guys find out I’m a Christian and automatically assume I’m uptight and judgmental.