However, if you give less than 4, you may give the impression that you aren’t interested.
Some guys kiss on the first date because they “feel a vibe.” Men can immediately tell if they're attracted to a woman and with loads more testosterone than women, guys are often ready and “in the mood.” Women, on the other hand, take more time to establish their attraction to a man. So it can take time and a patient consistent approach before she is hot for you too.
Growing up, my grandma was never short of advice for me, especially about dating.
For some people, whose main goal in dating is to have sex as quickly as possible, the question of when to first kiss may seem irrelevant. The question comes up even more when you see people who wait until their wedding to have their first kiss. Is that why the ceremony says, “You may kiss the bride”?
Our advice: We know every date and every situation and every person's motivations in the dating world are different.
But if you think you'd like to see your date a second, third, or tenth time, it might be worth waiting for one very simple reason (the same one, in fact, a lot of people give for holding off on sex): the sweet agony and anticipation.
You don’t have to copy mine, what do YOU like about her?
If you give more than 4, you risk sounding desperate and you might make her feel self-conscious or uncomfortable.
Think of it like this: a man is a gas stove; his fire is lit quickly. My personal feeling about kissing on the first date is that it is weird.