Have you and your friends ever looked at something, like a situation, an inanimate object, or a person and have come to totally different conclusions about it? I love how the human mind works – how fast it takes in data through the eyes, processes and compares it to personal desires and experiences in the mind, and formulates an instant impression.
I know men do this well, sometimes too well, especially when it comes to women (so I’m reminded by some of my female friends).
There is respect for what they’ve been able to accomplish in their lives and who they are as people.
Some of these skills are obtained out of necessity, but nevertheless many men find these qualities quite attractive.
Everything went smoothly—until they met in person for a cup of coffee.
They had many things in common and talked for about 45 minutes.
Christine recalls, "I recently had a male friend tell me, ' Chris, men just want a woman who's going to be home and be a great wife and mother. Look at you, you're going 100 mph all the time, no guy wants that.'""I am attractive, in gosh-darn good shape, fun, great sense of humor, full of energy and life, smart and ambitious," says Christine.“He knew what I did for a living, because I listed it on my profile.But he made a comment about something in my field, and I responded with some information from a research paper I had just published,” she told me.Then John looked at his watch and said that he had to get going.He didn’t mention getting together again, and that was the last Sara heard from him. There are many possible reasons that John might have decided not to pursue the relationship further: He may simply have decided he was not attracted to her after all, or that she was not as interesting as she seemed in her profile.
If it bothers you that she always wants to go to fancy restaurants and expects you to pay, say something.