Think about it: if you have to beg her for her PHONE NUMBER now, do you really think she is going to want to go on a date with you in a few days? Go back to your friends.” (I think this one came from TD) You: “you know you’re first impression was kind of so-so, but now that I get to know you, you’re pretty fucking interesting. This slight difference in wording changes the subtext entirely.
That’s why I came to you.”A one-on-one client said this in our ‘entry interview.’ The guy is a genuine B-List celebrity. Hot girls who were never into you before follow you around with puppy dog eyes.
Women compete for your attention, hanging off you laughing, playing with their hair, touching you.
Your friends think you’re The Man and everyone else wants to meet you. If she does, she’s pretty likely to just offer you her phone number.
Maybe you are in a phase in your life where you are interested in a serious relationship.
Of course I could also be wrong and you are not looking for a girlfriend.
I live in New York City, and the dating scene here is weird. No one really "dates" here; they "hang out." And with so many people around, sometimes women feel like they have to sleep with the guy sooner to keep his attention.
(Think of how many women love flirting with gay men.) We see this a LOT with guys who are pretty new to Love Systems.
I'm more comfortable with my body because I view it as a powerful machine, and I carry myself with confidence.
I enjoy sex more because I'm not hung up on what I look like naked, so I don't hold back in bed.
So women are very used to feeling attracted, enjoying that feeling, and then doing absolutely nothing about it.
Future Hookup) was so into you when you met, but won’t return a call or text? Like David D says, “attraction is not a choice.” What IS a choice is whether she acts on that attraction.
However, if you really like the girl and want to get closer with her, asking for her number is an important first step.