Men who have never masturbated (Type A) – Weiss believes this group of men is the smallest camp of men in the Western world.
After years of speaking at men’s conferences, he’s only met 14 men who claim to have fantasize or lust during masturbation (Type B) – This type of person stays “connected” to himself during masturbation—they don’t escape into fantasy.
I have never thought of this before and the concept intrigued me. We are breathing deeply and connecting with another.
I always thought of meditation as sitting cross-legged, with eyes lowered, hands on the lap, and the focus on breathing. During really, incredibly great sex the focus is on the moment. In my lifetime I have experienced different types of sex but the best sexual partners that I have had have been the ones that I could be fully present with and I knew they were fully present with me. We were focused on the feeling of our bodies together in that moment.
The suspect is described as a black male, 18-35 years of age, approximately 5'8" to 6' tall, 170-200 pounds, wearing a black t-shirt with a red Nike symbol on it and multi-color sweatpants and black tennis shoes.
As such, there is little emotion attached to the experience, and typically no sense of guilt or shame. Men who lust during masturbation (Type C) – These men are “disconnected” during the act of masturbation: their focus is on a mental image, an actual image, or an object.
The screaming, the breathing, the noisemaking, the shaking, the squeezing, the gripping and biting it is all found in the present.
There is no thought that I should now breath deeper.
Colleagues who presumably don’t bring a change of underwear so could let any missed, ahem, consequences of their masturbation break soil what they are wearing.
Colleagues who I have to 100% trust know how to wash their hands properly. I can only speak from a male perspective, but I have lost count of the times in my various jobs that I have seen a male colleague emerge from a pungent cubicle and head straight back into the office, bypassing the sinks.