An anniversary should be a day when you conveniently forget about the rest of the world, and focus on each other.Some of the most appreciated anniversary gifts revolve around time the couple can spend together enjoying some activity or event together.There does not appear to be a similar universally accepted gift guide or suggested list for dating anniversaries.Some gift stores and websites have created their own lists of suggestions but nothing as widely recognized as the wedding anniversary symbol list first created by Emily Post in 1922.He hinted that he’s interested in seeing you again, but the question is should you go on a second date with him? In my article on why guys suddenly lose interest, I discussed how caring too much or stressing over your relationship can irreparably damage it. When you eliminate the care (or worry or stress or whatever you want to call it), you are free to really be in the relationship. Realize stressing gets you nowhere First, you need to realize that getting all wound up over the state of your relationship serves no purpose, ever.The Apgar Score has since been used millions of times and has saved the lives of countless babies. Checklists are such powerful tools that Atul Gawande wrote a whole book about them called .
For example, evidence shows that simple but straightforward checklists work a lot better than complicated but fuzzy subjective evaluations. Virginia Apgar figured out over breakfast one day that a systematic assessment of five variables of a newborn -- heart rate, respiration, reflex, muscle tone, and color -- and three scores (2, 1 or 0 depending on the robustness of each sign) can determine whether a baby required intervention or not. The checklist clarifies thinking and saves precious time. There is so much talk about standards, but WHAT KIND OF STANDARDS?Usually the best way to tell if someone is worth your time is to closely observe rather than what he says.Pink, squirming, grimacing, crying baby with a pulse of 100 and score of 8 or above? And I thought about the manifestation of that interest in a way that was easiest to spot and difficult to fake.The result is the TAO Hotness questionnaire: Score the following three questions on a scale of 2 (always or nearly so), 1 (sometimes), or 0 (seldom or never): 1.
Every interaction and conversation became a test to see exactly where he stood and how he felt.